Stepping into March with Blogging

I have asked myself countless of times why I quit blogging and a whole lot of other things last year, up till now I am still unsure if I have a valid answer except excuses. During my long vacation from blogging, a lot of things changed, *hands in the air* one of which is, I…

Escaping from the Inevitable: Death

“Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It’s the transition that’s troublesome.” Once in a while, I love to take a break from the harshness of life, spoil myself and watch the world still from afar. I enjoy every moment that comes along, and play safe without missing out on the goodies of life. You know…

My view on becoming Friendly

What I want to say to young girls is forget about likability. If you start thinking about being likable you are not going to tell your story honestly because you are going to be so concerned with not offending, and that’s going to ruin your story so forget about likability.- Chimamanda Adichie I truly apologize…

How do you get over the loss of a loved one?

“Whoever said that loss gets easier with time was a liar. Here’s what really happens: the space between the times you miss them grow longer. Then when you remember to miss them again, it’s still with a stabbing pain to the heart. And you have guilt. Guilt because it’s been too long since you missed…

What happens when a Pastor maltreats his Wife?

“The thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives you power. You just take it”- Roseanne Barr While growing up, I used to think marrying a pastor was the best way to have a good man. I was wrong!!! You only marry a good man when you’ve found the right one; irrespective of his…

Exposing a Damaged Society- The act of ‘Honour Killing’

There is no large flag enough to cover the shame of killing innocent people- The fresh Quotes What would you do if the people you called your family cut you into pieces, bundle you in a box and then bury you? What would you do if the ones you called your family kills you for…

When going to church becomes boring

    “Anyone who thinks sitting in church can make you a Christian must also think that sitting in a garage can make you a car.” ― Garrison Keillor       Important Notice– I won’t be posting regularly because of my upcoming exams- please bear with me  🙂 .  I really don’t have anything…

Dear men, not all Feminists are Angry

“Black Girls… Don’t be afraid to use your voice. Your thoughts, opinions, and ideas are just as important as anybody else. When you speak, speak with boldness and purpose. Have courage, be confident, and always be true to yourself! Live your life fearlessly! Your voice has GREAT power; don’t be afraid to utilize it when…