Baking with Love

Feminism has never been about getting a job for one woman. It’s about making life more fair for women everywhere. It’s not about a piece of the existing pie; there are too many of us for that. It’s about baking a new pie. Gloria Steinem Miraculously, I found myself in SDGs Community Development Service, and…

My view on becoming Friendly

What I want to say to young girls is forget about likability. If you start thinking about being likable you are not going to tell your story honestly because you are going to be so concerned with not offending, and that’s going to ruin your story so forget about likability.- Chimamanda Adichie I truly apologize…

How do you get over the loss of a loved one?

“Whoever said that loss gets easier with time was a liar. Here’s what really happens: the space between the times you miss them grow longer. Then when you remember to miss them again, it’s still with a stabbing pain to the heart. And you have guilt. Guilt because it’s been too long since you missed…

Why every woman should become a Bitch

“Nice girls need to know what a Bitch Understands”- Sherry Argov From the words of Sherry Argov-Why Men Love Bitches To strong women: Jessy, Stephanie and Emem If you’ve stumbled upon this post or blog without a clear knowledge of who a Bitch is, then I need to redefine it. Sherry Argov- A Bitch is…

Six reasons why my Friends are still Single

“Don’t let society fool you into believing that if you don’t have a girlfriend or boyfriend then you are destined for a life of misery. The Dalai Lama has been single for the last 80 years and he is one of the happiest people on earth. Stop searching for happiness in places outside yourself and…

What happens when a Man is not a Man?

“We’ve begun to raise daughters more like sons… but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters.” ― Gloria Steinem Before you read any further, read this: Vitotow’s (1981) “Ten commandments for Manhood” Thou shalt not be weak, nor have a weak God before you. Thou shalt not fail thyself, nor…

You shouldn’t talk about Marriage if you haven’t learnt how to Love

It is not a lack of Love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages” – Friedrich Nietzsche The institution of Marriage has always been a continuous string that many people look forward to. Although the state of being married entails a voluntarily attachment for life, it’s however ironic that the bliss of some…

What then is Love?

Love by Simon Siwak, 2012. Digital artwork “We accept the love we think we deserve.” ― Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower Please don’t ask me what love is because I don’t know. I don’t want to say things that would make me or probably you angry. All I know is love makes…