How do you get over the loss of a loved one?

“Whoever said that loss gets easier with time was a liar. Here’s what really happens: the space between the times you miss them grow longer. Then when you remember to miss them again, it’s still with a stabbing pain to the heart. And you have guilt. Guilt because it’s been too long since you missed…

What happens when a Pastor maltreats his Wife?

“The thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives you power. You just take it”- Roseanne Barr While growing up, I used to think marrying a pastor was the best way to have a good man. I was wrong!!! You only marry a good man when you’ve found the right one; irrespective of his…

Why every woman should become a Bitch

“Nice girls need to know what a Bitch Understands”- Sherry Argov From the words of Sherry Argov-Why Men Love Bitches To strong women: Jessy, Stephanie and Emem If you’ve stumbled upon this post or blog without a clear knowledge of who a Bitch is, then I need to redefine it. Sherry Argov- A Bitch is…

What happens when a Man is not a Man?

“We’ve begun to raise daughters more like sons… but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters.” ― Gloria Steinem Before you read any further, read this: Vitotow’s (1981) “Ten commandments for Manhood” Thou shalt not be weak, nor have a weak God before you. Thou shalt not fail thyself, nor…

For Women Only-#FWO: Are you struggling with an Eating Disorder?

Henceforth, every splendid Wednesday on the blog would be themed #FWO-“For Women Only”. Serious health issues and other subject matters relating to women would be identified and discussed; nevertheless, this doesn’t call for the total exclusion of male participation. This is a free zone, join the conversation! According to National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and…

You shouldn’t talk about Marriage if you haven’t learnt how to Love

It is not a lack of Love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages” – Friedrich Nietzsche The institution of Marriage has always been a continuous string that many people look forward to. Although the state of being married entails a voluntarily attachment for life, it’s however ironic that the bliss of some…

When going to church becomes boring

    “Anyone who thinks sitting in church can make you a Christian must also think that sitting in a garage can make you a car.” ― Garrison Keillor       Important Notice– I won’t be posting regularly because of my upcoming exams- please bear with me  🙂 .  I really don’t have anything…

What then is Love?

Love by Simon Siwak, 2012. Digital artwork “We accept the love we think we deserve.” ― Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower Please don’t ask me what love is because I don’t know. I don’t want to say things that would make me or probably you angry. All I know is love makes…

The need to unchain African women

        “No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow. ” – Alice Walker I just finished reading a novel Nervous Condition by Tsitsi Dangarembga, a Zimbabwean author, and I don’t know if ‘m sad,angry or indifferent. I think it’s all mixed up. I am angry at each one…