Three months of Mellow

“The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.” ― Eleanor Roosevelt Hello Everyone, It’s been quite sometime since I blogged- my apologies; however, ‘m back with few details of my life offline. Have I been fine? Hmm…I…

What happens when a Pastor maltreats his Wife?

“The thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives you power. You just take it”- Roseanne Barr While growing up, I used to think marrying a pastor was the best way to have a good man. I was wrong!!! You only marry a good man when you’ve found the right one; irrespective of his…

What happens when a Man is not a Man?

“We’ve begun to raise daughters more like sons… but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters.” ― Gloria Steinem Before you read any further, read this: Vitotow’s (1981) “Ten commandments for Manhood” Thou shalt not be weak, nor have a weak God before you. Thou shalt not fail thyself, nor…

For Women Only-#FWO: Are you struggling with an Eating Disorder?

Henceforth, every splendid Wednesday on the blog would be themed #FWO-“For Women Only”. Serious health issues and other subject matters relating to women would be identified and discussed; nevertheless, this doesn’t call for the total exclusion of male participation. This is a free zone, join the conversation! According to National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and…

Question of the Week

Hello Everyone, I hope this Sunday is a beautiful one? So, this is a new week with a question. Do endeavour to partake and have a splendid week ahead. If your friend was cheating on their partner, would you tell their partner about it?

What then is Love?

Love by Simon Siwak, 2012. Digital artwork “We accept the love we think we deserve.” ― Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower Please don’t ask me what love is because I don’t know. I don’t want to say things that would make me or probably you angry. All I know is love makes…

The need to unchain African women

        “No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow. ” – Alice Walker I just finished reading a novel Nervous Condition by Tsitsi Dangarembga, a Zimbabwean author, and I don’t know if ‘m sad,angry or indifferent. I think it’s all mixed up. I am angry at each one…

Dear women, you owe no dumb man an Apology

“Hand off my ass or I’ll rip off your balls.” ― Katie McGarry, Dare You To “Most women are all too familiar with men like Calvin Smith. Men whose sense of prerogative renders them deaf when women say, “No thanks,” “Not interested,” or even “Fuck off, creep.” ― Jon Krakauer, Missoula: Rape and the Justice…